For this post, I'm just going to come to the podium, introduce the topic being discussed, and then shut up and listen while other people get up and talk. I've always been amazed by how much people misunderstand each other. We tend to think those on the opposite end of the political spectrum are more extreme, more sinister, and less intelligent than they really are. We think they do what they do because they're mean and stupid, when in fact, they're often doing it because they genuinely think it's the right thing to do. And they think we're mean and stupid.
Now that social media has come along, I think we're missing a great opportunity to explain to other people what we really think, and just as importantly, why we think it. Of course, what people usually do when politics comes up on social media sites is to take sides and have a big, playground feud with name-calling, scapegoating, and hurt feelings all around. But surely it doesn't have to be this way. At least, maybe we can use it to increase understanding, too. So, I put together an online survey asking people to briefly explain--in the most polite, thoughtful way possible--what their political beliefs are, and why they believe them. I also asked them if areas where the other side has a point, how they are most commonly misunderstood, and how they think public debate could be made more civil and productive. So far, the volume of responses has been underwhelming (2 people), but the quality has been excellent. One is a moderate, and the other is a moderate liberal. If you read these, and feel like explaining why you believe what you do, I'm linking to the survey at the bottom. If I get some more responses, I'll post them here. It would be nice to get some other views, especially conservative and libertarian ones. And now, I'll yield the floor to my guests.
Now that social media has come along, I think we're missing a great opportunity to explain to other people what we really think, and just as importantly, why we think it. Of course, what people usually do when politics comes up on social media sites is to take sides and have a big, playground feud with name-calling, scapegoating, and hurt feelings all around. But surely it doesn't have to be this way. At least, maybe we can use it to increase understanding, too. So, I put together an online survey asking people to briefly explain--in the most polite, thoughtful way possible--what their political beliefs are, and why they believe them. I also asked them if areas where the other side has a point, how they are most commonly misunderstood, and how they think public debate could be made more civil and productive. So far, the volume of responses has been underwhelming (2 people), but the quality has been excellent. One is a moderate, and the other is a moderate liberal. If you read these, and feel like explaining why you believe what you do, I'm linking to the survey at the bottom. If I get some more responses, I'll post them here. It would be nice to get some other views, especially conservative and libertarian ones. And now, I'll yield the floor to my guests.
First Guest (Moderate)
1. Where do you live?
Arkansas |
2. How would you describe your
political views?
Moderate |
3. How would you describe your
religious beliefs?
Christian (Protestant) |
I'm a Christian who thinks many modern interpretations of
Christianity are off in a significant way. |
4. Please briefly describe your basic
views about politics. Try to politely explain what you believe, and
why. Please be as clear and specific as possible. If you say you
believe something, please explain why you believe it. Be friendly!
This is not the place to say why the other side is wrong. The point
is not to convince others you're right, but to help them understand
how you see things.
I think both sides of any political argument can usually learn
something from the other, and the reason our country's so divisive
is there's not enough respect for our collective differences. The
truth is often found somewhere in between. I think each extreme
stance is a direct response to the opposite extreme and that both
extremes have way more in common than they'd care to admit. I
think there's a difference between standing up for your beliefs
(i.e. living your life according to your moral code) and denying
someone else the right to theirs because of what you believe. Or
at least, there should be a difference. I think science and
theology aren't mutually exclusive. I think Christians' (or any
faith's) refusal to acknowledge scientific advancements or to
accept current scientific understanding is killing religious
faith. I also believe that scientific arrogance is triggering that
response. The only things science proves are the scientific
reasons or causes of things in our physical world. It's not within
the purview of science to disprove matters of faith and I believe
scientists who claim otherwise are overstepping their boundaries.
I also believe extreme conservative Christians who refuse to
consider different interpretations of the Bible will eventually
render their own faith obsolete. There's no reason our
understanding or perception of God can't grow with our
understanding of science and perception of the world in which we
live. I believe God doesn't allow bad things to happen to good
people. I believe we live in a physical world where natural things
happen, and I believe each of us has been given the gift of free
will. I believe that free will often results in people making poor
decisions, which then have a negative (and sometimes devastating)
effect on others. It's up to each of us to choose how to respond
and grow from those experiences. I believe that what I believe
doesn't really matter to anyone besides myself, my family and
friends, and anyone upon whom I have the opportunity to have an
impact. I believe my beliefs have more impact if I reserve them
for when they really matter instead of waving them around like a
showy flag. I believe I should leave a positive impact on this
world and show respect for others. I believe this is a brilliant
idea. |
5. How do you feel that others most
commonly misjudge your views? In other words, what are the biggest
misconceptions or misunderstandings others have about people with
your political views?
My conservative friends think I'm delusional and that I've lost touch with my beliefs when I voice a liberal stance on something they perceive as "un-Christian." My liberal friends think I'm ignorant or obviously closed-minded when I voice a conservative stance something. |
6. Please rate how important you
consider each of the issues below. If there are other issues you find
important, please list them in the "Other" section.
Very Important (1) | Important (2) | Somewhat Important (3) | Not Very Important (4) | Unimportant (5) | |
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Abortion |
X
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Crime |
X
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Economy and Jobs |
X
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Education |
X
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Environment |
X
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Ethnic Minority Issues |
X
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Foreign Relations |
X
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Gay Issues and Gay Marriage |
X
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Gender Issues |
X
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Global Issues |
X
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Government Spending |
X
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Gun Policy |
X
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Terrorism |
X
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Other (please specify): |
7. Please list the top one to three
political issues that are most important to you, and explain what you
believe about them, and your reasons for those beliefs. Please
remember that the point is not to prove you're right, but to explain
your views to people who don't share them.
Abortion - I personally don't believe my life is my own. I believe I have a responsibility to make loving choices in everything I do and to accept responsibility for my actions. I don't always succeed but I must always strive. I believe there are natural consequences to all that we do, and one of the potential natural consequences of sex is pregnancy. As a woman, I believe we make our choice when we decide to have sex. If pregnancy results, it's our responsibility to make a loving choice and if we're not prepared to keep the baby, maybe the father is. If not, there are many adoption options. I believe abortion should be reserved for victims of rape and incest, though I admit proving who's a victim and who's not isn't always easy. Having said all this, I also believe both sides of this debate miss HUGE opportunities to work together to prevent the need for the argument in the first place. Sex Education and Personal Responsibility classes could go a long way toward that goal. Gay Issues and Gay Marriage - I believe conservative Christians are way off base here, and I believe how this debate turns out could have a huge impact on human rights in general. I don't believe the government has the right to restrict gay marriage rights any more than I believe they have the right to restrict mine. I don't think it matters whether you believe gay men and women were born gay or whether you believe they choose to be gay. The point is they should have the choice to be happy regardless of WHY that makes them happy. I have a dear friend who believes to the core that gay people shouldn't be allowed to marry because it's not Biblical, but in the next breath she'll state she wants a government whose role in her life is restricted in order to protect her rights as a human being. This woman is brilliant in so many ways yet she has no idea how contradictory these two stances are. Education - I believe education is the key to pretty much everything. |
8. Are there areas where you think
people of different political views might have a good point? If so,
please explain.
Being the moderate that I am, I almost always see both sides of the argument. I may come down on one side of the fence over the other, but I can usually see the other point and find some truth in it. |
9. Do you think there is too much
partisanship or incivility in public debate? If so, do you have any
suggestions for ways we could make public debate more constructive?
Are there any other points you would like to make about this issue?
There's definitely too much partisanship and incivility in public debate. We could start by respecting our neighbors more. Insist on being right less often. Admit when we're wrong. Not that I'm always good at it because I do have a fair amount of pride, but I try to see reason in the end because I despise arrogance.
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Second Guest (Moderately Liberal)
1. Where do you live?
2. How would you describe your
political views?
3. How would you describe your
religious beliefs?
4. Please briefly describe your
basic views about politics. Try to politely explain what you believe,
and why. Please be as clear and specific as possible. If you say you
believe something, please explain why you believe it. Be friendly!
This is not the place to say why the other side is wrong. The point
is not to convince others you're right, but to help them understand
how you see things.
5. How do you feel that others most
commonly misjudge your views? In other words, what are the biggest
misconceptions or misunderstandings others have about people with
your political views?
6. Please rate how important you
consider each of the issues below. If there are other issues you find
important, please list them in the "Other" section.
7. Please list the top one to three
political issues that are most important to you, and explain what you
believe about them, and your reasons for those beliefs. Please
remember that the point is not to prove you're right, but to explain
your views to people who don't share them.
8. Are there areas where you think
people of different political views might have a good point? If so,
please explain.
9. Do you think there is too much
partisanship or incivility in public debate? If so, do you have any
suggestions for ways we could make public debate more constructive?
Are there any other points you would like to make about this issue?
Click here to take survey |